a course by dorcy pruter
You Got Out.
Now Break Free.
You left. And you’re still hearing their voice. Still reading every room. Still bracing. This is where you find out why. And what to do about it.
- Why no contact kept you safe. And why it was never a healing plan.
- What boundary-setting actually looks like after you step away
- The difference between narcissistic and borderline patterns, and why it changes your recovery
- What this relationship did to your nervous system, and how to start moving differently
Four Modules. Clear Answers. No Filler
You made the hardest decision. You left.
And now you’re realizing that leaving the relationship doesn’t automatically leave you.
You still flinch at certain tones. You still over-explain. You still brace before you speak. You still notice yourself reading every room, managing every reaction, and wondering if something is wrong with you.
Nothing is wrong with you. The dynamic trained you. And until you understand exactly how it did that, your nervous system keeps running the old program.
You Got Out. Now Break Free. is where that stops.
This is not a trauma processing course. It is not a support group. It is a clear, direct look at what actually happened inside that relationship, what it installed in your nervous system, and the specific steps to stop carrying it forward.
Module 01: Why no contact is a boundary, not a healing plan
No contact keeps you safe. That's real and it matters. But distance is not the same as recovery. You'll learn what actually needs to happen after you stop contact. And why so many people stay stuck in the loop even after they're out.
Module 03: The difference between narcissistic and borderline patterns, and why it matters
Not every difficult relationship looks the same. What was done to your nervous system depends on the pattern. This module gives you the clarity most people spend years in therapy trying to get.
Module 02: What boundary-setting actually looks like after you step away
Boundaries before you leave are survival tools. Boundaries after you leave are recovery tools. They work differently. This module breaks down how.
Module 04: What this relationship did to your nervous system
Your body was keeping score before you even knew the relationship was damaging you. This is where you understand the specific adaptations your nervous system made, and what it looks like to start unwinding them.
Who This Course Is For
This course is for the person who got out and still doesn’t feel free.
Specifically: you left a relationship with a parent, partner, or family system that was run by narcissistic or borderline patterns. You made the decision to go. You stopped the contact, set the boundary, or walked away.
And you are still hearing their voice in your head.
You still shrink. You still apologize. You still feel responsible for other people’s emotional states. You still can’t fully land inside a moment without scanning for what might go wrong.
That is not a character flaw. That is what happens when a nervous system spends years adapting to an unsafe relationship. The body does not lie.
This course is where you start telling the truth about what happened. And what you carry from it.
About Dorcy
Dorcy Pruter is a certified coach, a formerly alienated child, and the creator of the UNHOOK Method.
Over 20 years of recovery work. Since 2006.
Her High Road to Reunification Program is the #1 court-ordered family reunification program in the country.
She has worked with thousands of individuals and families navigating the aftermath of high-conflict relationships, pathogenic parenting, and the nervous system cost of growing up in a system that was not safe.
She built this course because most people who leave don’t know what to do with themselves once they’re out. You deserve more than surviving the escape.
You Got Out. Now Break Free. Four modules. Instant access. No expiration.
You already did the hardest part. Getting free is next.
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